Bartending Drink
Bartending Drink
Welcome to part two for picking up bar staff and bartenders while they’re working.
So you’ve made ordered a drink from the hottest bartender there like I said right??
Okay …
That’s the easy part done. Great work!
You’ve made a statement rather than a question yes? This is very important as questions take value from people. If you want to ask a question always place a statement in front of it. For example “You look like you’re having an energetic night …So what’s been happening then?”
As opposed to “How’s your night … what has been happening?”
This idea behind this is to make yourself stand out from all the other guys, and you will by making a statement rather than just requesting a bourbon and coke.
Most guys just order a drink and walk away wishing they could at least start a natural conversation with the hot bartender, she’s standing there with her radiance and every guys eyes deadlocked on her, she’s bored as usual and don’t let the high energy attitude fool you.
Most bar girls are envying everybody else who are having a great time with their friends, who are on the dance floor and who don’t have to work while she’s stuck there behind the bar until 3am serving drinks.
So you’ve started the conversation and made a statement about her (see part one)
The keynote here is to engage her emotionally rather than logically, speak philosophically and not about facts i.e. the WORST thing you could say is just:
“How’s your night?”
“How long have you been working here”
These are instant state killers and she’ll pigeon hole you in the “average guy” category in a heartbeat.
So you want to be emotional and bring about her emotions when you talk to bartenders and to do this you need to at least say something other than your drink order.
Like I said it doesn’t matter what you order just as long as you order it from the hottest bartender there.
I love saying this to bartenders:
“Did you know I read this study on bartenders, apparently if a girl is a bartender with blonde hair
Her: “hehe no that’s not true”
Me: “Well there you go you’re lying already … It is true!”
Me: “You look as though you’re having a fun time what’s the most exciting, life changing event that’s happened tonight … besides talking to me”
If you’re with a mate have a bit of fun and say:
“You know what I’d love to do to you…
Me: “Man
Her: “hehe you two are funny!”
Me: “Anyway I’ll get a bourbon and coke with some passion and looooooove in it …please.”
Feel free to use these lines for yourself and you’ll notice some amazing reactions from the girls you’ve never seen before. You’ll really make these girls nights and they’ll remember you the next time you order.
You’re also coming from a frame where you’re out to have fun, bust her chops, bust your mates chops and generally create a fun atmosphere as opposed to the other 98% of guys there who just stare at the girls working the bar, wishing and hoping that by some miracle these girls will start a conversation with them.
The bonus is if the bar isn’t that busy and there’re stools at the bar where you can sit (I love these by the way) then plonk yourself down and try these out and see how effective these cocky and funny lines work.
Another good piece of advice for you is to become a regular at these bars, don’t be the regular drunk (that’s a different story) just be a regular there and be seen there often.
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I hope you’ve enjoyed these tips on picking up and talking to bartenders and I hope our paths cross again in the future.
Talk to you sooner than you think,
Alex
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can someone give me a free easy simple bartending cheat sheet?
I’m taking online courses for bartending school and I wondered if anyone could make/send me a link for a free, simple cheat sheet for the most popular drinks I can use as a reference to keep with me while I work?
Bartending is one of the hardest jobs ever. EVER. Good luck.
You could get the little Bartender for Dummy’s book at the store. It might help a bit.
http://www.dummies.com/how-to/content/bartending-primer-essential-recipes.html
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